Friday, April 22, 2011

The one day of the year

Funny I've finally got around to starting this blog today--which I've been meaning to do for some time--because it's Good Friday, the one day of the year in my frangaroo childhood that the menu at our house was anything less than inspiring. That's because we kept the Good Friday fast or rather diet. We always ate fish on Fridays but I never minded that, because I always loved fish except for the very bony ones, and under Maman's skilled and imaginative fingers it was always tranformed into a meal fit for a king, anyway. But Good Friday meant the following menu: Boiled whitefish with salt; boiled potatoes, ditto, steamed cabbage, ditto. Water to drink. And that's it. No wine for my parents. No cheese, fruit, sweets, butter, meat, oil, eggs, or any flavourings other than salt(not even pepper.) No salad. No yummily-cooked vegies. Nothing other than that miserable monochrome menu.
Just one day of the year. And a very small sacrifice, in pathetic and even ridiculous proportion to the terrible event we were memorialising. We knew all that. But of course we complained. And we eternally hungry kids who from the tenderest babyhood were accustomed to having our palates delighted every day, weren't the only ones to complain. My father would spend much of Holy Thursday evening lamenting the culinary ordeal that was soon to follow, and was up bright and early on Holy Saturday morning to tuck into a tasty breakfast of crisp-fried pancetta and fresh bread--he who hardly ever had more than a cup of coffee most mornings. And, oh, his glum looks at his Good Friday plate! All that was tradition too--and so was Maman's half-joking, half-serious reproof to him, telling him off for giving us a bad example.
These days, I'm not quite as assiduous as my parents on the Good Friday menu front, though I still cannot bring myself to eat any meat or sweets that day. But then my parents themselves aren't as dedicated as they were in my childhood. Last Good Friday we were in France, with them, and though it was fish of course, there was not only salt, but pepper and oil and vinegar and nice vegetables and fruit. Monochrome it seemed was gone forever. 'Well, you see, ' said Dad, 'once you're over 70, the Church says you no longer have to keep the Good Friday fast. You just musn't eat meat.' And he smiled, and happily helped himself to another bowl of Maman's excellent fish soup.


  1. hey sis,
    today is much worse here in Granville,lentils and salt...and it's good too. You can't pray with a full stomach.
    Looking forward to Sunday feast of agneau a la bordelaise with moka charlotte. We'll miss you at our lively debates !

  2. coucou Sophie,
    je suis moi-meme en train de manger des pates "monochromes" , c'est pas la joie
    sinon bravo pour ce joli post

  3. rien que la photo de ton blog me fait l├ęcher les babines

  4. merci a tous et toutes! je m'amuse beaucoup avec ce blog! xxx